n a recent Making Bank episode that features Mastin Kipp, a renowned entrepreneur, author, coach and spiritual leader, we came across a compelling perspective on the journey to success.
To sum it up - it’s not just about the hustle; it’s about healing.
Kipp’s transformation from a life marked by challenges to a position of influence speaks volumes of the power of overcoming adversity.
Note: You can catch the whole interview on our YouTube channel.
Is Success an Illusion?
Many entrepreneurs often trap themseleves in a cycle of self-focus. We’re made to believe that this relentless pursuit of growth and achievement is what leads to fulfillment. However, as Kipp emphasizes, this preoccupation with external validation is often a result of underlying wounds and trauma.
We often think that reaching a big goal will make us successful and thus eventually happy. But this isn’t always true. Sure, getting a promotion or buying a new house feels good, but it doesn’t fix deeper problems. For example, someone might get a big raise but still feel stressed and unhappy because of personal issues.
To truly be happy, we need to deal with the root causes of our problems, not just cover them up with success.
A study published in the Journal of Happiness Studies found a correlation between prioritizing experiences over material possessions and increased life satisfaction. This suggests that investing time and resources in creating meaningful experiences can contribute to greater well-being.
To illustrate this point, consider the concept of “hedonic adaptation.” Humans have a remarkable ability to adapt to positive changes, leading to a return to baseline levels of happiness. This means that the thrill of acquiring new possessions or achieving goals tends to diminish over time.
To counter this, it’s essential to focus on building intrinsic motivations, such as personal growth, relationships, and a sense of purpose.
What Is The Power of Purpose In My Journey?
Kipp posits that finding a purpose beyond personal gain is essential for sustainable success. When your actions are aligned with a larger mission, challenges start feeling like opportunities for growth. This shift in focus from “me” to “we” can be transformative.
Overcoming limiting beliefs: Many of us carry subconscious beliefs that block our progress. These limiting beliefs often stem from past traumas or negative experiences.

For example, someone might believe, “I’m not good enough to start my own business.” This limiting belief stems from fear of failure and self-doubt. By challenging this belief and focusing on past successes, they can build the confidence to take the leap.
The role of trauma: Unresolved trauma can manifest as self-sabotaging behaviors or emotional blocks.

A person who experienced a traumatic childhood rejection might struggle with building close relationships as an adult. By understanding the root cause of this fear, they can begin to heal and build stronger connections.
The power of routine: Establishing a consistent daily routine, particularly a calming bedtime ritual, is essential for mental clarity and productivity. Prioritizing sleep and relaxation allows the mind to recharge and focus.

Practical Steps to Transformation
Kipp’s journey highlights the importance of practical steps to overcome challenges and achieve lasting change. Here are some ideas to get you started:
Self-reflection: Regularly assess your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors to identify patterns and underlying beliefs. You could try journaling. It is a powerful tool for self-discovery.
Mindfulness: Practices like meditation and deep breathing can help you connect with your inner world and reduce stress. Apps like Headspace or Calm can provide guided meditations.
Seek support: Don’t hesitate to reach out to therapists, coaches, or support groups for guidance. Consider joining a mastermind group or finding a mentor.
Set boundaries: Protect your time and energy by establishing clear boundaries between work and personal life. For instance, designate specific work hours and avoid checking emails after a certain time.
Give back: Engaging in acts of service can shift your focus from personal struggles to the greater good. Volunteering for a cause you care about can bring a sense of purpose and fulfillment.
Celebrate small wins: Acknowledge your progress, no matter how small. This helps maintain motivation and momentum.

Remember, personal growth is a lifelong journey. Be patient with yourself, celebrate small victories, and don’t be afraid to seek support.